Every misfit, every mad man is so different from another of his kind, that the only thing common between each in that tribe is their uniqueness and their difference from other normal people. When you fit in, you're just the same, just one of them..may be better than the rest, but almost always not necessarily different

On the other hand...

Women don't have to conform to stereotypes as strictly as men have to.
Ever since they started wearing pants without throwing away the saree.
They can afford to be rebellious, and they can afford to be submissive. At their convenience.

If I hold your arrogance against you..its only bcos its a conditioned response.

Sometimes I wonder, how the world would be, if we all end up doing what we want to, what we like to. How much of an individual can we be, and how much we need to care about/for the society

Was reading Cuckold today. Kiran Nagarkar's point is so valid. The Rajputan hero who worried so much about upholding the values of bravery, honour and pride, also worshipped Krishna. And Krishna never cared about what anyone in the whole world said
So funny no, we are taught to pray, and somehow expected to uphold what the gods never stood for

Genuinely fearing God is worse than genuinely fearing society. Because with society atleast there is a tangible possibility of expression. God's judgments are so absolute in nature, in our mind, as planted by the society...He is a contradiction...all forgiving, with a bucket of hell

Stereotypes

If I were a psychiatrist, I would use stereotypes as a reference dictionary, but treat every person I meet as a unique case....everyone deserves that much. A chance