Have just downloaded Sara Ahmed's Cultural politics of emotion
sounds damn interesting...this is what i want to be when i grow up....n till i am not that, i haven't grown up enuff i guess

http://rpp.english.ucsb.edu/research/race-gender-and-sexuality/ahmed-sara-the-cultural-politics-of-emotion-new-york-routledge-2004

http://www.routledge-ny.com/books/The-Cultural-Politics-of-Emotion-isbn9780415972550